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Jayme Blasiman, Peak Performance Coach. Warning: Some of the language and material may shock you. Poised Affluence. Who is Poised Affluence Founded in 2011 Mission/Focus: We help same-sex & open-minded straight couples bring more passion and excitement into their relationship
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Jayme Blasiman, Peak Performance Coach Warning: Some of the language and material may shock you.
Poised Affluence • Who is Poised Affluence • Founded in 2011 • Mission/Focus: We help same-sex & open-minded straight couples bring more passion and excitement into their relationship • Why I started the company • Who is Jayme Blasiman • Founder/Owner of Poised Affluence • Peak Performance Coach • Author of Grandpa’s Wisdom • Graduate student of the Robbins-Madanes Coaching Program- Strategic Intervention
Initial Steps In Relationship Coaching • The Beginnings • 4 Levels of Love • 7 Master Skills • 6 Human Needs
About Your Relationship How did it all begin? What do you want for your Relationships?
Four Levels Of Love Level 1: Baby Love Level 2: Horse Trading Level 3: Give love because it is who you are Level 4: Even love those that try to hurt you Focus on what you are giving NOT what you are getting
Seven Master Relationship Skills • Heartfelt Understanding • Giving Your Lover What They Really Need • What are your vehicles? • Staying Connected • Build Trust & Respect • Trust: Built on the commitment to satisfy the other’s needs • Respect: Comes from accepting what the other brings to the relationship • Positive Intent • Judgments and criticism are the opposite of attributing positive intent • Polarity • The play of differences between you • Presence
Sexual Essence & Energy • Love is NOT enough to have sexual attraction You must have Passion • To have Passion you must have Variety and Polarity • It is time to learn the dance of your relationship-how to bring back the polarity • Shakti and Shiva are always at play • What is Your dominant Sexual Essence & Energy? • Sexual Intimacy: Embrace the light emotions and the dark emotions Thegreater the polarization, the stronger the attraction and passion you will have. Shakti Shiva Sexual polarity is not required for love but it is necessary for sexual attraction in a relationship.
Six Human Needs • Needs of the Personality • Certainty • Variety • Significance • Love/Connection • Needs of the Spirit • Growth • Contribution What are your vehicles?
Thank You For Attending www.PoisedAffluence.com 1-855-21Poise Jayme Blasiman • Next Steps: • Schedule your initial Coaching session • Register for event #1 in the series
Credits Strategic Intervention (also known as SI) is a project dedicated to extracting the most practical and effective forms of strategic action and communication from a variety of disciplines: Ericksonian therapy, strategic family therapy, Human Needs Psychology, organizational psychology, neurolinguistics, psychology of influence, strategic studies, traditions of diplomacy and negotiation, game theory, and others. The term “Strategic Intervention” was coined by Anthony Robbins, Cloe Madanes, and Mark Peysha to describe their change work.