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Effective Communication. Effective Communication or is it ?. Effective Communication. What makes communication effective ?. Aristotle ( IV century BC ’ Rhetoric ’) : 'In making a speech one must study three points: first , the means of producing persuasion ;
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Whatmakescommunicationeffective? Aristotle (IV century BC ’Rhetoric’): 'In making a speech one must study three points: first, the means ofproducing persuasion; second,the style, or language, to be used; third, the properarrangement of the various partsof the speech.'
Whatmakescommunicationeffective? Stephen Toulmin (1958): Effective communication is aboutcommunicator’sability to construct a persuasiveargument (Claim-Data-Warrantmodel)
Whatmakescommunicationeffective? Paul Grice (1975): Weshouldunderstandhowweinfer (formopinionabout) unstatedmeanings in conversation. (Grice’sCooperationPrinciple)
Whatmakescommunicationeffective? Mary Munter (1992): Effective communicator carefullyconsiders 5 variablesthatconstitutecommunication: communicator, audience, message, channel, culturalcontext
Whatmakescommunicationeffective? Rogers and Hildebrandt (1993): weshouldunderstand the valuessignificant for diffirentcommunicationcontexts :informational, trasnformational, relational, promotional. (CompetingValues Framework)
Effective Communication: understandyourcommunicationstyle • Theory: InterpersonalAttitudeInstrumentpositsthateach of us has a defaultcommunicationstyle • Thesearenotbetterorworse – just different
Communication Styles Analyst – Data FocusProducer– ResultsFocus Innovator – Creative FocusDiplomat– People Focus
Active Listening: vitalskill • Saves time • Helpsspeakersclarifywhattheyaresaying • Makesspeakersfeelheard • Reducesemotionsthatblockclearthinking
How to become an activelistener? Step # 1. Acknowledge the thoughts, ideasorfeelings of the other person • nods • ”uh-huhs” • commentsthatindicateyourecognize the validity of the speaker’sfeelings
How to become an activelistener? Step # 2. Sayit in differentwords • Paraphrase (repeatwhat the speaker is saying in yourownwords, withoutaddinganythingextra)
How to become an activelistener? Step # 3. Askopen-endedquestions. Askrelevant, open-ended questionsbeginningwith • What • How • Pleaseexplain • describe
How to become an activelistener? Step # 4. Summarize and clarify • Pulltogetherwhatyouhaveheard. • Make sure youunderstand the speaker’sintent. Ask to clarify. Example: Youmentionedwehavegotsomedifficultieswithdelivery. Whatmightbeotheroptions?
How to become an activelistener? Step # 5. Give an opinion. • Give an opinionwithcaution. • Askwhether the speaker is willingorwants to hearyouropinion • Don’tgiveyouropinionif the speakerdeclines.