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Ch. 6: Verbal Communication language is both universal and cultural. People have a “language instinct” Culture=>variable languages!. Language is a system of arbitrary symbols used by members of a speech community to communicate, interact, and transmit information and culture.
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Ch. 6: Verbal Communication • language is both universal and cultural. • People have a “language instinct” • Culture=>variable languages!
Language is a system of arbitrary symbols used by members of a speech community to communicate, interact, and transmit information and culture. Language Subsystems: Phonetics=Words and their Sounds Syntax = Words and other Words Semantics = words & their meaning Pragmatics = Words and their Users
Language is full of subtle rules. (Syntactics) “I came to school on the bus” “I came to school on the taxi”
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Language is the most advanced system of symbols we know. Symbol= word/sound/visual that represents an object, sound, thought or experience. (p. 153)
English Postcard, well before Nazism Lesson: symbols can change over time!
DENOTATION=dictionary definition • Dog /dɔg, dɒg/ Show Spelled [dawg, dog] Show IPA noun, verb, dogged, dog·ging. • noun 1. a domesticated canid, Canisfamiliaris, bred in many varieties. • 2. any carnivore of the dogfamilyCanidae, having prominent canine teeth and, in the wild state, a long and slender muzzle, a deep-chested muscular body, a bushy tail, and large, erect ears. Compare canid. CONNOTATION= personal, subjective meaning Miss Lucy!
Denotation vs. Connotation Carlin on Words you can’t say on TV: Updates: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/02/weekinreview/02liptak.html?pagewanted=all http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/14/business/media/14vulgar.html
How do words work? Thought Referent or thing (small four-legged animal that meows) Word or Symbol (cat) Charles Ogden & Ivor Richards
Words can be… • Symbolic of the concrete or abstract • ARBITRARY (we give them meaning) --exception: onomatopoeias • Contextual and culture bound --symbolic interaction theory (language binds people together via shared meaning) New words? What do they suggest about our culture? http://www.merriam-webster.com/info/newwords12.htm
Does language constrain thought? Can different cultures with different words think different things? Savoir-faire, Schadenfreude, amae Hopi= “masa’ytaka” (p. 160) Sapir-Whorf Hypothesis: language both shapes and is impacted by culture (p. 160)
Naming Practices • Naming: Symbolic communication in everyday life Are we shaped by our names? http://www.ssa.gov/OACT/babynames/
Words=power • To create perceptions (framing!) • To influence thought • To influence action (persuasion!) • Make or break relationships Bottom line: WORDS MATTER.
Ways to Boost Verbal Effectiveness (end of chapter, pp. 171-181) • Dialogue (coming together) vs debate (winning, finding fault, one answer) • “I” language vs. “you” language • Solve problems vs. just critique the person. • Empathy, flexibility, equality • True apologies=acknowledges you were wrong. • Assertive vs. aggressive (denying rights of others
Some word problems • Euphemisms (‘collateral damage’) • “allness” (sweeping generalizations!) • Restricted code/jargon “do you have a USB port? DSL internet?” • Polarization • Hate speech
Biased Language Sexist (see p. 167) Racial/ethnic Demeaning (age or mental abilities) Marked vs. Unmarked terms (i.e. “male nurse”, “adopted child” “gay friend”)
Gender & Language • Is this == True? • Problems? • “Report talk vs. • Rapport talk”
Gender Differences (p. 170) WOMEN more likely to.. • Establish equality • Show support • Keep conversation going • Include others • Be more tentative MEN more likely to… • Establish power, status, worth • Use talk for tasks and problem solving • Interrupt more (?) • Be more assertive
Sound/Style differences: • Lexical: color discriminations, adjectives • Syntactical:tag questions, qualifiers, disclaimers • Intonation: up-speak
Exam One • Several people got in the A-range! Excellent job! Short Essay Grading Scale: 7pts or below=missing details, adequate answer 8pts=solid answer 9pts=great detail, terminology, examples 10pts=stellar in use of terminology, connections, thoughtfulness.
Sample 10pt Answer “Self disclosure is when a person moves something from the “Hidden” window of the Johari square to the “open” window. That is to say that the person discloses some secret to the other person in the relationship. This is huge in forming relationships! The receiver might be looking to reduce uncertainty and the info might do this, and eliminate some of the superimposing done by the receiver. It may also scare off the receiver. Any way you look at it, self-disclosure usually changes a relationship—for better or worse.”