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Announcements * New Couples * Welcome Back Party, Saturday, September 24th @ Big Dry Creek Park w/ Chili Cook off * Project Cure Service Project, Saturday, October 1st 9am-12pm* Men's & Women's Study* Sign up to bring breakfast* Sign up to take meals* New Members lunch next Sunday in Fireside room* Join Fellowship 1* Flyers/invite a friend
Marriage Spotlight • Cory and Katie BowlineThe Plan and Design
Plan and Design • Plan and Designno construction ever begins without specific plans. • Exodous 23
God has specific plans for our marriage:Providential moral personal – “custom”
Hedgehog Concept:“is a simple crystalline concept that flows from deep understanding about the intersection of three circles”1) what you can be the best at, 2) what drives your economic engine 3) what are you deeply passionate about. A hedgehog is a process not an event.In marriage….1) know yourself, gifts – love language-personality 2) Know your spouse 3) Knowing God – His plans, Character, purpose
With your spouse what do you think is the purpose or hedgehog for your marriage?Draw three circles
At your tables: • What is the best piece of advice you’ve heard about making a marriage last?
Proverbs 4:23 • Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. • Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that's where life starts. • The condition of our own heart is more important than the actions of our spouse.
Communication • Conflict resolution • Leisure activities • Finances • Sex and affection • Family and friends • Spiritual beliefs • Marriage roles
Car alarms • Human vigilance • Piece by piece • “And of course, in a post-9/11 world, we have an even greater sense of the need to be on the alert. But what about spiritual matters? The things that concern our inner man are far more important and eternally consequential than the material goods we might be able to protect. Out of all the areas in life that force us to take "security measures", the Bible presents our effort to protect our heart as the most important of all.” Pastor Greg Allen
Frank Laubach • American missionary over a century ago • Only missionary on a US stamp 1984 30 cents • “Each one Teach one” Literacy
Philippians 2:4-7 • 4If you've gotten anything at all out of following Christ, if his love has made any difference in your life, if being in a community of the Spirit means anything to you, if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor: Agree with each other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends. Don't push your way to the front; don't sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don't be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
Bring out the Christ and His loving rule in one another. • Not by giving advice, but by asking the right questions. • Ministering grace. • Openly share your journey • Richness of soul