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Dealing with Conflict in a Community Setting. Prepared by David Duff and Christina Pretty November 2011. Outline. What is Conflict? Conflict in a Community Setting Resolving Community Conflict Conflict Resolution Organizations. What is Conflict?.
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Dealing with Conflict in a Community Setting Prepared by David Duff and Christina Pretty November 2011
Outline • What is Conflict? • Conflict in a Community Setting • Resolving Community Conflict • Conflict Resolution Organizations
What is Conflict? • Conflict is any struggle between opposing forces • May result from differences in needs, ideas, beliefs, values, or feelings between the two parties • Can easily escalate • Creates tension • Can be positive or negative
Positive and Negative Conflict Positive Conflict Negative Conflict • Can be channelled into finding positive solutions that meet people’s needs • Creative • Motivates teams to look at a problem that may have been otherwise overlooked • New ideas for old problems • Increased interest and renewed energy to fix a particular problem • Does not contribute to building cohesion and trust • Does not move towards finding consensus solutions • Reduces efficiency • Leads to negative feelings between parties • Causes disruptions • Diverts team energy to a destructive path
Distinguishing Positive from Negative Conflict • If you answered YES to any of the above questions, you have Negative Conflict • If you answered NO to all of the above questions, you are likely to have Positive Conflict Source: http://www.communities.gov.uk/documents/communities/pdf/884762.pdf
Conflict in a Community Setting • Communities are often faced with conflicts • Conflicts may result from • sharing of water resources, waste disposal, zoning rights, etc. • proposed changes tohistorical, cultural, or economic aspects of the community Image source: http://north-west-news.whereilive.com.au/news/story/mitchelton-residents-protest-neighbourhood-plan/
Conflict is inevitable, but combat is optional. - Max Lucado Source: http://resolveyourdispute.co.uk/conflict-is-inevitable-but-combat-is-optional/
Managing Community Conflict • Acknowledge that the conflict does exist • Use effective communication between the affected parties • Negotiation • Predict future conflicts
Acknowledge that the Conflict Does Exist • Often, parties are in denial that a problem exists • Leaving the issue unacknowledged may cause the problem to grow with devastating consequences • The earlier the conflict is acknowledged, the earlier steps can be taken to resolve it
Effective Communication • Maintain contact with the persons involved throughout the entire process of resolving the conflict • Gives the individuals and groups a sense of importance within the issue Image sources: http://www.catalystpaper.com/media/gallery/corporate-images/powell-river-community-meeting & http://www.hnhblhin.on.ca/Newsletter.aspx?id=92
Effective Communication • Provide accurate information to the community • Through school administrators, church leaders, popular clubs within the community, etc. • Do not place all of the blame on the other party • Be polite • Actively listen to concerns and feedback
Activity – Are you really listening? • The person at one end of the table says a word. The person sitting next to them must then say a different word that begins with the previous word’s last letter. It continues around the table. • Example: bat – that – tin – nail Image source: http://activerain.com/blogsview/891628/ahhhhh-to-get-a-word-in-edgewise-how-not-listening-is-a-deterrent-in-real-estate-and-life-
Negotiation • Hold public meetings to specifically discuss problem issues • Where individuals and groups can voice their opinions and concerns • Seek help from local organizations specializing in community conflict resolution • Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution • Use mediators and facilitators
Mediation • A problem-solving process • Those in conflict meet with a neutral third-party (the mediator) in a safe setting to discuss and resolve their differences • Mediators do not take sides, give advice, make suggestions, or impose settlements. • They ask clarifying questions, reflect feelings, and identify needs Source: http://www.mediation-works.org/pg16.cfm
Predicting Future Conflicts • Learn from previous community conflicts • Gather information through community questionnaires, surveys, etc. • The ability to understand past conflicts helps communities to develop new strategies for preventing, managing, and intervening in future conflicts
Predicting Future Conflicts Questions to ask to help predict conflict: • Are natural resources a factor that may cause conflict in your community? • Are there any religious or ethnic factors that may cause conflict in the future? • Does the government/municipality represent the people’s ideas and needs? Encourage debate and discussion of ideas within the community? • Have there been any economic shocks or financial crises within the community?
Conflict Resolution Organizations • Mediation and Restorative Justice Centre (Alberta) • Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution Image Sources: http://www.mrjc.ca & http://www.cicr-icrc.ca
The Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution (CICR) • Peace-making process • Enables community groups and organizations to become their own “conflict resolvers” • Facilitates processes and community dialogues to develop local solutions to local conflicts • Offers community-level training in conflict resolution • Uses Community Based Conflict Resolution
Community Based Conflict Resolution (CBCR) The processes of CBCR should: • Foster dignity and respect • Be positively centered • Be inclusive and barrier-free • Be vision-based • Be timely and sustainable • Recognize the complexity of conflict Source: http://www.cicr-icrc.ca/media/Microsoft%20Word%20-%20CBCR%20definition01.pdf
Resources • Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution (http://www.cicr-icrc.ca/pages/intro.php) • Community Conflict: A Resource Pack (http://www.communities.gov.uk/publications/communities/communityconflict) • Conflict Resolution: Acknowledge the conflict exists (http://www.entrepreneurialwoman.ca/2011/09/14/conflict-resolution-acknowledge-the-conflict-exists) • Government of Newfoundland and Labrador Community Capacity Building http://www.ibrd.gov.nl.ca/regionaldev/capacitybuilding.html • Listening Games and Activities (http://www.articlesforeducators.com/dir/language_arts/listening_skills/listening_games.asp) • Mediation and Restorative Justice Centre (http://mrjc.ca/) • Mediation Works (http://www.mediation-works.org) • Newfoundland and Labrador Regional Economic Development Association (NLREDA). Resource Materials • http://www.nlreda.ca/content.php?cid=40&nav=71 • Resolve Your Dispute (http://resolveyourdispute.co.uk/conflict-is-inevitable-but-combat-is-optional/) • Workplace Conflict: An Inevitable Fact of Life (http://www.mediate.com/articles/workedit2.cfm)