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Contemporary Adolescence. Chapter 10 Adolescence and their Families. A brief reminder of Systems Theory. Subsystems Inter-relatedness of the subsystems Homeostasis and morphogenesis. Changes in the system: Parent’s in midlife. Most in midlife perceive: Decline in: Energy Health
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Contemporary Adolescence Chapter 10 Adolescence and their Families
A brief reminder of Systems Theory Subsystems Inter-relatedness of the subsystems Homeostasis and morphogenesis
Changes in the system:Parent’s in midlife • Most in midlife perceive: • Decline in: • Energy • Health • Creativity • Physical attractiveness • But an increase in: • Wisdom • Competence • Psychological health • Respect from others
More about parental midlife People tend to become more flexible in midlife Contrary to popular culture, most parents handle the “empty nest” just fine Parents that do undergo a period of life evaluation find their relationship with their adolescents arenegatively affected by it
The Siblings Caregiver relationship Buddy relationship Critical relationship Rival relationship Casual relationship
Parenting: What do adolescents want? • Connection • Interest and help • Listening and empathy • Love • Acceptance and approval • Trust • Autonomy • Enmeshed • Disengaged • Regulation
Regulation: Parenting Styles • It is better to have one parent who is authoritative and one who is not that to have two of any other kind
Attachment Style • Secure • Feelings of competency • Get along well with others • Do well in school • High self esteem • Less likely to get in trouble and be depressed • Anxious • Avoidant
Conflict Adolescents and parents generally agree on many of the most important aspects of their views of life Adolescents typically love and care about their parents Arguments generally concern minor issues However, conflict with parents does rise sharply in early adolescence, remains high for several years, and declines in late adolescence
Sources of Conflict Physically, adolescents become bigger Increased ability to think critically Indirect arguments: Sexual issues Differences in outlook
Emerging adult relationship Typically, relationships between parents and emerging adults improve Emerging adults who move out tend to get along better with their parents than those that remain at home